Happy Holidays

Daily Words 2010. 12. 24. 03:21



Just until a few days ago, I thought 2010 was such an unproductive year.
But then I had a chance to review my 2010, and it was highlighted by some short events that had a common theme that made me happy: Reconciliation.
I've felt what it was like to meet people following a long, and deep, yearning: friends, relatives and family.
This is one year I was lucky enough to meet a majority of closest friends in the Philippines, South Korea and the US (but not all, obviously); my relatives in Korea (after nearly 7 years) and my parents (after like 2 years).

Friends and family are amazing in a sense that time and distance don't seem to matter when it comes to they and I.

I'm embarrassed that I thought 2010 was a loss.
I guess the Supreme Being is fair after all. Had I not met all these people, 2010 could have been pretty harsh. 
But it's all good. I am happy how 2010 went by.
Hopefully, I will get to meet you all in 2011 and also do better in the non-spiritual part of the life. 

Have Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!
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Traces of Other People

Daily Words 2010. 12. 20. 17:53
I know that people absorb other people's traits.
I know I've done that.
But I also notice those things that are not originally something that came within and be helpless and still do as they did or think as they did.

There are things I do and I know that those are from someone else - And I know exactly from whom those traits are from.
Most of the times, I don't care about those traits.
Sometimes, I am glad of the qualities I envied and made a part of me (although not to the subconscious level).

But at times, I just hate it.
It's purely disgusting.
It's also disgusting that it makes me to think of that person.

I hate that I absorbed those traits.
I hate that there are traces of that person in me.
I hate that I can recall all these and be helpless. 
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So, I read it.
Eh...
Was not a bit impressed.
I guess people were impressed with this book because people don't read much these days and don't know what to expect from books or how the books should be different from other types of media.

<Spoiler Alert>
If you have read enough number of mystery books, you know what's coming, and the book revealed too much in the beginning.
At the prologue, I knew Harriet was alive.
Upon the introduction of Vanger family members, I knew it was either Martin or Hendrik that was with some serious issues.

The book was interesting only in the middle part when Blomkvist discovers things with old photographs.
The rest was so much as I predicted. 
Also why spend 1/6 of the book on the "Wennerstrom vs Blomkvist Part 2" was sooo bad. Ugly, a total waste of my time.

I at least hoped to read something about Swedish culture. "Let the Right One In" was so casual about homosexuality and even with pedophilia (which was a pleasant surprise other than the vampire love story), but Larsson had nothing of those sorts. Maybe I am used to people cheating one another with all the American media. A younger girl going out with a man twice her age is also very cliche. 

Not a bit impressed.
Not at all.

Violent? Sure. But the descriptions are not graphical enough to give any daring images to the reader, at least not to me.
If I read this when I was a 5th grader (that's when I was really into mystery novels), I would have yawned at this book even then. 
I was also very annoyed with the description of technology at that time. Why went so detail on that? Don't you know times would change and technology changes so fast?

Damn. Now I started this so-called the Millenium Trilogy, I have to finish it. I really want to read some John Irving and John Steinbeck before the break is over, but I have no choice to finish this crap as soon as possible.

PS: The literal translation of the title is "Men Who Hated Women". I think this title is more relevant than "The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo". But I am glad this was not the English title. Had the literal translation was used, this book might not have been a bestseller. Because it then tells you there is a very important link between Rebecca and Harriet up front. This book is horrible (especially more so in retrospect)!!!!

2.5/5 - because the photography part was interesting. 
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